There
are a number of causes of low collection of confidence. It can be linked to the
way in which you were brought up. If your parents constantly belittled you,
then because you were unable to stand up for yourself at a young age, you are
likely to struggle with self-worth and have low self-esteem in adulthood.
Another
cause can be your environment. If you are constantly in a negative environment
among negative people, this negativity will begin to rub off on you. It will
chip away at your ability to interact with positive people. Eventually you will
buy into what the negative people say and your confidence will be affected. You
will feel like an outcast, as if you are different and unworthy of happiness,
success and prosperity.
Another
reason can be past experiences of failure. Perhaps you once failed at something
you really wanted to succeed in and someone made fun of you. This may have
happened multiple times in your life. Once you start believing in the negative
comments made to you by others, it is very difficult to believe in yourself
again, and as a result your confidence begins to decline.
The
only way a man can turn feelings of low collection of confidence around is to
recognize the downward spiral he is in and start to make his own decisions. He
must become a leader, not a passive follower. He must start believing in
himself rather than waiting for someone else to believe in him. He must
understand that the past is not the future, and that he can help to shape and
determine his future by taking action in the now.
The
past no longer exists. What you believe to be true of the past depends entirely
on you and, regardless of what you think about the past, it is up to you
whether or not you let it dictate your future. You have to make up your mind to
move forward. You have to choose not to rehash bad experiences in your head and
let them control your life in the present. Living in this non-reality of the
past will only create a negative outcome and drive you further into the
spectrum of low collection of confidence.
#Further More How Environmental Causes Self Hypnosis Confidence
There
are many things in your environment capable of causing low self-esteem. Perhaps
you are surrounded by a group of women who serve as a constant reminder of what
you can’t have because you are too afraid to try. Or perhaps you are surrounded
by a group of men who also have low confidence and self-esteem and it has
influenced you to the point where it has become your default behavior.
Being
around such groups of people will make you unhappy, and eventually depressed
and unable to thrive within everyday society. You need to be careful about what
environment you choose to put yourself in, because it plays a massive role in
how you feel and how others perceive you.
#Behavioral Causes
Having
low confidence means that you do not take action to achieve the things that you
want in life. Low confidence behaviors are projections of the thought processes
you are constantly developing. The negative things that happen over and over
again strengthen those neuron-synapses.
A
confident person sets a standard for himself according to his expectations,
which he derives from the type of world he wants to live in. He makes those
standards and will stand up and fight for himself and his beliefs. He will walk
away from situations that do not appear in his best interests and present
himself confidently in situations that do.
An
unconfident person is likely to stay in a bad situation because he does not
think he deserves better. An unconfident person is not able to differentiate
between good and bad because they are not consciously thinking about it and
have not the compass to steer them toward the most positive outcome. An
unconfident person no longer has a high level of concern for their behavior or
their surroundings. They become passive, lazy and surround themselves with
people of a similar mindset.
#Beliefs, Values & Mindset Causes
A
low-confidence guy believes that he is not good enough to establish a better
life than he has, and therefore his standards are naturally lower, as are his
morals and expectations of himself and others. His view is that the world is
limited, and that all he can do is just take what he can get. He believes that
he cannot break out of his perimeter and that all he can do is scrape by on
small crumbs of happiness.
Conversely,
a confident guy knows that he can have a very big piece of the pie and also get
to share some of that pie with those around him. He is not afraid or ashamed to
be successful, or to share his success with others.
#Identity Level Causes
A
person with low confidence will naturally have low self-esteem. They will feel
like they are not good enough, not worthy, and undeserving, believing that
trying is pointless because they are likely to screw it up anyway.
#Spirituality Level Causes
In
conclusion last but not the least, Einstein said that the universe is a
friendly place, but this is for a confident guy, not for an unconfident guy,
because it is related to the way in which reality is perceived. Is a guy who
lacks confidence going to have faith in himself? Is he going to feel like he
was put here to succeed or that he’s condemned here to live? On a spiritual
level, a confident guy is very appreciative and gracious of the gift of life.
He sees life as an opportunity of laughter, joy, and happiness.
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