5 Top Cause Of Low Collection Of Confidence

There are a number of causes of low collection of confidence. It can be linked to the way in which you were brought up. If your parents constantly belittled you, then because you were unable to stand up for yourself at a young age, you are likely to struggle with self-worth and have low self-esteem in adulthood.

Another cause can be your environment. If you are constantly in a negative environment among negative people, this negativity will begin to rub off on you. It will chip away at your ability to interact with positive people. Eventually you will buy into what the negative people say and your confidence will be affected. You will feel like an outcast, as if you are different and unworthy of happiness, success and prosperity.

Another reason can be past experiences of failure. Perhaps you once failed at something you really wanted to succeed in and someone made fun of you. This may have happened multiple times in your life. Once you start believing in the negative comments made to you by others, it is very difficult to believe in yourself again, and as a result your confidence begins to decline.

The only way a man can turn feelings of low collection of confidence around is to recognize the downward spiral he is in and start to make his own decisions. He must become a leader, not a passive follower. He must start believing in himself rather than waiting for someone else to believe in him. He must understand that the past is not the future, and that he can help to shape and determine his future by taking action in the now.

The past no longer exists. What you believe to be true of the past depends entirely on you and, regardless of what you think about the past, it is up to you whether or not you let it dictate your future. You have to make up your mind to move forward. You have to choose not to rehash bad experiences in your head and let them control your life in the present. Living in this non-reality of the past will only create a negative outcome and drive you further into the spectrum of low collection of confidence.

#Further More How Environmental Causes Self Hypnosis Confidence

There are many things in your environment capable of causing low self-esteem. Perhaps you are surrounded by a group of women who serve as a constant reminder of what you can’t have because you are too afraid to try. Or perhaps you are surrounded by a group of men who also have low confidence and self-esteem and it has influenced you to the point where it has become your default behavior.

Being around such groups of people will make you unhappy, and eventually depressed and unable to thrive within everyday society. You need to be careful about what environment you choose to put yourself in, because it plays a massive role in how you feel and how others perceive you.

#Behavioral Causes

Having low confidence means that you do not take action to achieve the things that you want in life. Low confidence behaviors are projections of the thought processes you are constantly developing. The negative things that happen over and over again strengthen those neuron-synapses.

A confident person sets a standard for himself according to his expectations, which he derives from the type of world he wants to live in. He makes those standards and will stand up and fight for himself and his beliefs. He will walk away from situations that do not appear in his best interests and present himself confidently in situations that do.

An unconfident person is likely to stay in a bad situation because he does not think he deserves better. An unconfident person is not able to differentiate between good and bad because they are not consciously thinking about it and have not the compass to steer them toward the most positive outcome. An unconfident person no longer has a high level of concern for their behavior or their surroundings. They become passive, lazy and surround themselves with people of a similar mindset.

#Beliefs, Values & Mindset Causes

 A low-confidence guy believes that he is not good enough to establish a better life than he has, and therefore his standards are naturally lower, as are his morals and expectations of himself and others. His view is that the world is limited, and that all he can do is just take what he can get. He believes that he cannot break out of his perimeter and that all he can do is scrape by on small crumbs of happiness.

Conversely, a confident guy knows that he can have a very big piece of the pie and also get to share some of that pie with those around him. He is not afraid or ashamed to be successful, or to share his success with others.

#Identity Level Causes

 A person with low confidence will naturally have low self-esteem. They will feel like they are not good enough, not worthy, and undeserving, believing that trying is pointless because they are likely to screw it up anyway.

#Spirituality Level Causes

In conclusion last but not the least, Einstein said that the universe is a friendly place, but this is for a confident guy, not for an unconfident guy, because it is related to the way in which reality is perceived. Is a guy who lacks confidence going to have faith in himself? Is he going to feel like he was put here to succeed or that he’s condemned here to live? On a spiritual level, a confident guy is very appreciative and gracious of the gift of life. He sees life as an opportunity of laughter, joy, and happiness.

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